Sunday, October 21, 2012

A Post that's Almost as Rare as Unicorns...

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You will NEVER see me get political on this blog. Mainly because I REALLY don't care about politics. 

Why, you ask? 

Because I can't stand the childish, "I'm right, you're wrong" political mentality in this country. It doesn't matter what anyone on one side of the debate has to say about an issue. They can have all the facts in the world on their side, but everyone on the opposite end of the spectrum will immediately discount their arguments as invalid, misled, or dishonest. They don't care about who the person is, or what their background might be. If their opinions are different, they're wrong. Period. 

Honestly, I wonder if it's just time to abandon the two-party system altogether. It doesn't work anymore. All it's managed to do in the last few decades is divide our country in a way that only a major shift in thinking will ever reverse. Yeah, we'll see where that goes in the next few decades. Honestly, I'm wondering if another civil war isn't in our future. I am not one of those doomsday types, but think about it. How can the fierce tension between the political parties avoid escalating to large-scale physical violence if it isn't somehow contained? 

Sometimes it seems as though there is no common courtesy left. No one seems to care about the feelings of other people anymore. It's all about "I'll say what I wanna say, and I'll do what I wanna do and if you don't like it you can leave. It's my life!" Seriously? You honestly think that what you do doesn't affect the people around you? Your family? Your friends? Even complete strangers?

You seriously think that when you're having a bad day, and you go through a store checkout line and chew out the cashier for some minor mistake, that you haven't affected their day at all? You actually believe that when you're in a hurry, and you run that red light to save five seconds, that you're not putting yourself and everyone else around you in danger? 

Please. Get over yourself and look around for a minute. You might be surprised.

You just might see the people around you for what they are: People. Just like you. 

In essentials, everyone is exactly like you are. They all care about something--their family, their job, their health. They all have something that they're trying to get done. 

They're all just trying to get through this life in one piece, exactly like you. 

You honestly believe your problems are bigger or worse than someone else's? Who are you to determine whose pain is the most unbearable? Who are you to dismiss what someone else is going through by comparing their suffering to that of other people? How do you know what's really worse? Can't you just try to listen for one minute and be sympathetic, rather than taking the first opportunity to turn the conversation back to yourself? 

I don't really know what has inspired this rant tonight. I honestly didn't intend for things to go this way when I started typing. I guess that's the risk a blogger runs once they sit down and start writing. 

Anyway, I'm really not talking about anyone in particular with this post. But a lack of common courtesy sure seems to be the root of a lot of the problems that exist in this world. It's one of my pet peeves. If we would just stop for a minute and look around us, taking into consideration the overall well-being of the people around us BEFORE we speak, BEFORE we act, I honestly believe that we could avoid a LOT of issues. 

**End Rant**

10 comments:

  1. Well said. I couldn't agree more. I know that I'm guilty of not considering how seemingly little actions on my part affects others.

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    1. Thanks. :)

      I'm certainly not perfect, but there are so many problems that could so easily be avoided if we could all be just a little more thoughtful.

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  2. I have a friend on Facebook that just spouts politics all day long. The only reason I even keep her is because I love watching her friend count go down, and down, and down by the minute. She's lost over 50 friends in the last 2 weeks. Great job, lady.

    Also, it always astounds me, this thought that one side of the country is completely right and trying to help out the nation, and the other side is just deliberately trying to destroy us. Like, I'm intentionally voting for someone because I want to just demolish our own country. Makes sense, right?

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    1. It's strange how people just don't seem to realize how offensive some of their words can be, isn't it? Your Facebook friend certainly seems to be oblivious to the thoughts or feelings of others.

      I know, right? As if we're all in on some big conspiracy, bent on destroying the world with our crazy opinions! I just don't understand some people.

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  3. Totally agree on the two-party thing. Seems like every election both sides draw a little closer in their ideologies and it all comes down to bickering about which one will do it BETTER. We need a new party with some fresh ideas.

    Candice in 2016! :D

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    1. Okay, I'll run for president, but only if you'll be in my cabinet! :)

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  4. Oh wow, I hadn't read this before I wrote my post but it seems we have similar thoughts at the moment
    As for politics. it is the same the world over. Our government seems more intent on the oppositions alledged sexism than fixing the real issues our country is facing.

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    1. Good to know that you and I are thinking along the same lines. :)

      I think politics are just a big, fat joke anymore. It worries me sometimes.

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  5. SO on board with this post. PLEASE THINK OF OTHERS. First, do you really think YOU are going to change anyone's mind? Really? Like that political "I'm-right" rant on Facebook is really going to change the hearts and minds of others? ARE YOU kidding me? Be an informed citizen. Cultivate your own thoughts. Stop bleating what the megaphones of your political party say!!!

    Also: PLEASE THINK OF OTHERS in your everyday life! It's the 'chewing out the cashier' thing that really gets to me. THAT IS A HUMAN. Just because they make less than you does not make them any less human. Similarly, cashier, do not treat the person in line like everyone else who's treated you like crap. Just because you've had 2 awful customers before this one does NOT mean you need to put up your defenses in advance.

    Oh, I don't know, it's learned behavior, I guess. Like hitting a dog: the dog will grow up thinking every human is just waiting to smack them. People "learn" that spouting loud, obnoxious political rantery is What All Opinionated People do. It Means You're Smart. It Means You're Informed. Treating people on the street like crap isn't rude, it's Smart. Take Care of Yourself. You Come First. You Matter Most. Survival of the Fittest.

    I just want human decency. In public, on the street, on the news, in politics. I don't think that's too much to ask.

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    1. Well said, my friend. Very well said. It's good to know that I'm not alone in thinking this way. I just wish all the people out there who feel the way that we do about this stuff would step forward and make their feelings known. Then we just might be able to make a change for the better. :)

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